"Ho's and Sluts"

BBWSex4u: BBW Discussions: "Ho's and Sluts"

First of all, this is a great site. Anyone who loves bbws and is a bbw is a pretty darn good person. Now, having said that, I'm gonna make an exception. From here on I will not comment to a poster who refers to his lady as a "ho" or a "slut". This offends me, and I will not give that individual any attention.
Your thoughts are appreciated, good people.

Mdogg, you are a scholar and a gentleman! It is very obvious that you have respect for the ladies who post here, judging from your comments on the posts. It is very much appreciated......of course, so are those beautiful twinkly eyes of yours ;)

Uh Oh, Squidge is turning on that charm.

Hey Girlie

Waiting, lol you are sooooooooooo cheeky! That's my natural charm, it oozes naturally!!

I agree with you 100% and here is my reason why, some women in a sexual fantasy world like to be called those names by their lover, on the other hand very few like it any other time. In my past experience I find guys who post and call their woman those kinds of names are usually posting with out there wife knowing. So here would be my exception, if the woman makes it plain in the notes she wants you to talk dirty and nasty then so be it, but other wise, no way. These ladies are beautiful ladies and should be treated as the special gifts they are. Because of the nasty email I received today I don't plan on posting my wifes pictures any longer on this site, and I am sorry for those of you who loved seeing her. But I agreed with her that any of that kind of stuff and I would quite. This is a crazy world we live in, it is really pretty easy to track people down, you would be surprised how easy in fact it is to track down a isp today. I don't want my wife put into danger, so if we should ever decide to again, I won't put her face, and I'll rejoin using a fake email account with all fake info. This site could do as some of the competitors do and have messages go to a in box for each poster. Oh well off the subject, sorry, but I agree.

Squidge: hello, luv!!; good to hear from you, and thanks for the nice words. Look in the dictionary under the words "class" and "lady"; your picture is there! (and the word "sexy" as well)

tuppins: your point is well taken, I just hope the morons don't prevail or we'll have to establish a "breakaway" site! I have a feeling they have chased away a lot of awesome posters....

Mdogg, See that's what I was talking about . Ty xoxo

Tuppinsinmo...

In you're profile you can block your email addy, so the freaks and useless can't e-mail you. You may have to create a new e-mail anyhow to keep the morons who already have it from writing.

Mdogg...instead of ignoring the posts, why not make it a point of pointing out to a the woman(who may actually see the comments) how beautiful she is? If you're the only bright spot on the post, maybe you'll get noticed? Just a thought.

"Ladies"...they are always "Ladies".

Thank you guys for the lovely comments and support, I am glad to see it isn't just me who hates to see the women posting called that!

Some people carry themselves in a manner to be respected, but if a person, male or female chooses to act in a whorish or sluttish manner, maybe they earn that titles they seek. A good example would be, every so often, some of the girls will break the posting rules and post a shot of them receiving a facial and to me that's done for one reason, to incite comments that would be more along the lines MDOGG is attacking. I don't think a picture of a person smiling into a camera with their face looking a pivot man for a circle jerk demands much respect. I'm sorry I don't. They aren't looking for respectful comments and if some men might get rude and crude, she's getting the exact reaction she, or whoever posted her pics, sought.

Now, I don't like seeing some of the idiots that leave tacky comments on posts of women that aren't displaying that kind of behavior, but I guess some men that leave comments are so used to dealing with whores and sluts, because that's the only kind of women that will deal with them or that's their preference, they don't know how to deal with a woman in any other way, but that's the risk that anyone that posts online has to face because they are in an open forum.


A in your ointment.

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I don't think a picture of a person smiling into a camera with their face looking a pivot man for a circle jerk demands much respect.

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mdogg - good thoughts and it would be grand if all comments us ladies that post here were as articulate as yours we would be taking our clothes off more often. LOL But then again, what else would I expect from a man in my favorite state! ;)

Great discussion, but I do have to agree with Wait it is an open forum and you are taking risks of what you put in an open forum like this.

NJ, If I promise to be more articulate, will you take off MORE?

HA HA HA Wait! You rarely comment so I won't have anything to compare your MORE to.

How you doing???

I'm doing OK. I've been on a self-imposed hiatus from commenting on posts pretty much. I should return from that hiatus and get back to my tacky self. I just know I'm being missed. (Hmmm, why would I be missed? Hell if I know.)

Waitin²Long

I agree with everyone, and have one extra one to add. Maybe its just me, but I can't stand it when they call them fat. Drives me insane. But then maybe that's just my insecurities. I know I'm fat, I don't need a man posting me to tell everyone I am. That's why we are on this site to start with.

Everyone: GREAT comments; I felt the subject needed to be addressed.

Hazee: That's a good point. You come up with some words of wisdom quite often! (Now don't get the big head! lol)

Last I checked they were still people and therefore have feelings.

I too find it offensive when a man refers to his lady, wife,gf etc as a slut, ho, etc.

Turns me right off on the post.

I'd be willing to bet that the few that post like has been discribed are young. Thay in my mind haven't yet learned how a women really wants to be treated.

Several of you make very valid points in this discussion.

Wait, you have a great validity in the fact that people post what reaction they'd like to receive.
And sometimes I wonder why women feel the need to show themselves being 'demeaned' as well as allowing posts like 'share my wife' lol does your WIFE know she's being shared? That's always my thought immediately... but I digress..

MDOGG is right. Why should someome disrespect someone else's post by posting something hurtful or frankly, pretty ghetto, in my opnion. I am SURE that will bring up a controversy, my last statement

And lastly, as my four year old niece says NJ, 'fat is not a nice word'.
And I agree with you. Wholeheartedly.

It's why i post so rarely. I have to be feeling VERY good about myself that day to garner the courage to post. And I try to be as tasteful as possible, to avoid good ol rotten posters.

Slutty Ho's can be kept to the MTV genre, leave it out of this site.

But then again this is the Internet and it's a place where people can try and live out their fantasies. Maybe we shouldn't take everything we see here as indicative as WHO the poster really is.

I've been told plenty of times, this is just the Internet and take it all with a grain of salt.

"pretty ghetto, in my opnion. I am SURE that will bring up a controversy, my last statement :-)"


Oh Yes It Will Missy

and i don't care. lol

Hmmmmm, you'd fit in perfectly here on the D Board.

Don't I already, hun?