How has bbwsex4u.com changed your life?

BBWSex4u: BBW Discussions: How has bbwsex4u.com changed your life?

This website provides a rare space to explore "fat-positive" photography, video, prose, and conversation. Does anyone have a story to share about how their body image and/or self-esteem has been affected by bbwsex4u.com?

I hope I have been able to bring some feeling of being wanted to a few larger girls in Dublin Ireland as I have got them to look at this site and see that :
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Bob
Dublin Ireland

Everything with a bigger girl is more fun, feels better and looks better. I want to be with a real woman, not someone who looks like if I want to do what I want I might break them. Bbw's know what they're doing and know what they like done to them. Nothing better than that.

Actually, I can say that I have come to "believe" that there are really men out there that like larger women. I have lived my whole life being made fun of and teased for being heavy. This site and the love of my man have made me see that there is nothing wrong with me. I wouldn't even let people take pictures of me, and now, lol...you see it all. My self esteem and confidence have soared. This site and all the work that Leslie has put into it since its inception, is the best on the net. Thank you for all who have ever commented on my pics. You are very much appreciated.

Anyone who would make fun of you or put you down for your looks is toxic and best avoided...surround yourself with decent, respectable people who accept you for who you are...lose the losers.

Thank you wnyguy, but these weren't people in my circle of friends. These were people passing on the street. Still happens sometimes, only now I know better. Thank you for the kind words.

BROWNEYED...I use to have the same problem people looking at me and saying things about me and you knew they were doing it. I have got over it some but sometime when I am in a good mood and people look and make fun of me..I always say "take a picture it may last longer" and they turn away and I just laugh at them. It even works for me when people are in cars and they stare at me standing talking to someone...I just wave at them and then they look away. I always say to myself I can be a bitch at time but if they don't like what they see don't look at me...

You're welcome, Brown....Devil, I'd love to take some pictures of you...

WNY..would love to have you take pics of me...there are a few of me on the REQUESTS if you like to see me...

thanks for having a great site to post and look at the most beautiful hot sexy ladies in the world
bbw woman are the sexist love all your curves

Wow. Some great responses you guys. But what do you think it is that allows confidence and self-esteem to grow? Is it responses to pictures and/or videos you've posted? Conversations in chat or on this board? Stories that are posted? Seeing other people's pictures and videos? This is so interesting...

Well for me it was all the unbelievable responses to my posts. When I first started posting, I thought the first time it was a fluke. Now, I've been here a long time, and I always, thanks to you lovely guys and gals, get wonderful responses. It has made me see that there are people out there that don't judge me by my size. Does that help answer your question?

It hasn't changed my life because I haven't posted, BUT it's good to know that I will/would be accepted without hesitation. And it's nice to read the testimonials from other bbw's also.

Another question for BrownEyedBustyBBW and anyone else who cares to answer: In your last post you say that the site has "made me see that there are people out there that don't judge me by my size." But do you think users are judging you by your size and the main difference is just that they are aroused by large women? Would that bother you if it were true?

Good question and I've wondered that myself. I've wondered if the 'fat' thing is a fetish And remember, the true definition of that word is not about something you really like. A fetish means that's the ONLY kind of sex that really turns you on.
I do not like being fat. It slows me down and keeps me from doing lots of things that are too hard for a larger woman which is everything athletic. I also love food!
That is a hard question. How many million men are turned on just by pretty eyes or big boobs? Is there a difference in that respect? You just hope they get beyond the initial attraction to see the person. And I believe that can be done.

As I have always loved Big Women. While coming of age there was nothing that appealed to larger or REAL women, although the photos here are great beautiful and wonderful this site caters to more than just pictures. This site represents a large population of men and women who are happy healthy beautiful and proud. This combination of Power gives more and more people the realization to be themselves love themselves and have fun. These are the ways my wife and I have been changed

Interesting point melli. So in that sense, BBW is like a preference - like blonde/dark/red hair.

I think you're right about that sktshell. Maybe this website is more than just the sum total of it's parts. The knowledge that there is an entire community with a common idea of beauty may be the overall effect which is more important than any individual feature.

never cared for skinny women, think i understand why. its better to see the real bbws here than go randomly searching for it elsewhere.

it certainly seems like a healthy enough preference to me, sktshell.

lets see my ex wife got addicted to it when we was married now we are divorced

Wow Eddie. Sorry to hear that. What happened? What did she get addicted to? Posting pictures or videos?, chatting?

ilovefatbutts she got adicted to just staying on here every min that she was not at work until late at night i miss her though i'd just deal with it if she came back

Like many I am addicted to this website-love of the fuller figure w/ curves + gorgeous titties , and flattering photos of the face & the fuller figure ladies does me good .