By bigtat on Tuesday, January 12, 2010 - 3:47 pm |
i have got a 27yo bbw wife who i have been trying to get to do anal for years and she wont. do any bbw like anal and if so how can i tempt my wife so she will let me try it.
By devil on Tuesday, January 12, 2010 - 8:56 pm |
Man I wish you luck there. Like most woman I have known or even talked to. Some do like anal and others don't. If you want her to try it, just ask what she feels and go from there. Great thing be is to talk about it. Plus experincing new things could also lead into more.
But this is just a guy talking and putting in my two cents worth.
By bbw_wan on Wednesday, January 13, 2010 - 6:13 am |
man my gf barely lets me do anal at first when we started all we did was anal and i miss it lol but i got lucky a recently and got you have to just kind force it but not too much just play around the but hole area with your fingers or lick it...
By sexylaydeefl on Wednesday, January 13, 2010 - 7:30 am |
"...you have to just kind force it..." EXCUSE ME???????? Force? I don't know what type of woman your girlfriend is bbw_wan, but if you were to try to "force" anything on me you would end up swallowing your balls because I would kick you so hard between your legs that your balls would end up in your f'ing throat! NOOOOOOOOO you cannot force a woman to do anal. If she is not comfortable enough to try it, then let it go. I personally enjoy anal but it is not something I need or even want all the time. If you force anal on a woman, she will get hurt and could possibly be damaged back there for the rest of her life. Yes, anal is a little painful the first time but the key is to just relax and for the guy to use lots of lube, BE GENTLE and go slow. Please don't force anal on any woman. Geez.
By shymanny on Wednesday, January 13, 2010 - 8:28 am |
best way is ask her what about it turns her off or why she won't do it. some women just feel that that they rather not have something that they enjoy go in that area cause they feel its gross or dirty . it can also be a comfort thing maybe she not comfortable having you inside her there cause it may hurt her. like it was said before best thing is discuss it out and not just in the " oh baby i wanna do you up the ass tonight" way i mean in real adult way
By bigtat on Wednesday, January 13, 2010 - 11:07 am |
thanks for the comments i will discuss and give you feedback.
By bigtat on Wednesday, January 13, 2010 - 1:03 pm |
well we talked about it and she game me a little surprise, she bent over and took off her silk pants to show me her clean shaven pussy and a pukka arse. she gave me some lube and told me that i could use a finger but to take it easy. it hurt her at first but she began to enjoy it. she said that we can keep trying a finger then a small toy and in the future my cock so thanks for the info i had fun.
By kittycleaner on Wednesday, January 13, 2010 - 6:34 pm |
Consider your self very lucky. The word "force" to me means rape. Never and I mean never force anyone to do anything ever that they do not consent to. No still means NO.
I think this shows all of us that some needs a lot of growing up to do.
By fawntana on Thursday, January 14, 2010 - 6:25 pm |
I think what he meant by "force" was "force the issue". At least that is how I took it.
By wnyguy on Friday, January 15, 2010 - 5:48 am |
At least we now know what you ladies DONT like...
By blacksonet on Monday, January 18, 2010 - 4:57 pm |
My wife happens to like anal Yes lucky me. It wasn't something we did from day one it took time and patients. I was the first to do her ass.
Start by using your tongue on her ass. She will feel how good that is and she may actually cum as a result of a good rim job. Give it a good licking during foreplay. If she takes a liking to that and I think she will you might want to take it a step further. Try a small vib SMALL I said or a well lubed finger. Both can be used while you are licking her. I'm not talking about doing this all in one night. Encourage her to stick her finger in your ass. Let her know if you like it. If you don't you might as well stop right there. If you do tell her so and thank her too. If you get the green light one night go SLOOOOOOOW and use lots of lube. I remember the first time cumming before I had the whole head in. I felt like I was 16 again. I pressed forward and with the cum lube it helped but still hurt her a bit. The point being you can't get her lubed up enough the first time or for that matter many times after. Try and control your forward motion. I know this is almost a reflex to pump deeper but this isn't the normal hole you are going into. Let her back into you or at least instruct you to start and stop. Pay attention to what she is saying and talk to her. Even today after a good number of years of anal I get her off first with my tongue and then go slow and wet. We sometimes use cum from the first go around to lube her up. She will ask me to do her ass now which is a real turn on. Turn around is also fair play My wife likes to do me with her strap on. Thankfully it's smaller than my cock but it hurts before it feels good. I think it's good to know what she will or is feeling. I know that when she pulls her harness and dong out of the toy box I'll get some too. It's not gay guys it feels good. Remember no means no and if you never get to do it remember it's not the worst thing in the world. When she is ready she will give it up and not before. Good luck to you both. Don't try to trick her into it. that's just not right
By bbw_wan on Monday, January 18, 2010 - 8:20 pm |
lol I didnt mean actually force it in her dumbass I meant like what fawntana said thankyou...
By outofmind on Monday, January 18, 2010 - 8:23 pm |
Just find another ass .... man. LMFAO
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By bbw_wan on Monday, January 18, 2010 - 8:25 pm |
What are you talkin about lol
By outofmind on Monday, January 18, 2010 - 8:33 pm |
Another woman that loves it in the ass. Of course it depends on what kind of relationship you are in ...
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By whacker38 on Monday, January 18, 2010 - 10:17 pm |
my bbw wife does anal. she will not take a cock over 5 inches anally. just work with her and try small dildo's with lots of lub. And my wife likes to watch me suck and jack off a cock while she is eating pussy. and she likes to see me take a cock anally. and like her i will not take a cock over 5 inches in the ass.
By blacksonet on Tuesday, January 19, 2010 - 9:10 am |
whacker Sounds like we are married to the same woman. Mine loves to watch me suck cock and take it in the ass. She goes crazy watching. Isn't it great.
By cpl505 on Wednesday, January 20, 2010 - 2:11 pm |
Always precede anal with a couple glasses of wine.
By bigdees on Friday, January 22, 2010 - 11:53 am |
Give her a few more years @ 27 I wanted nothing to do w/anal, now @ 39 I cant wait to try it & am w/a man that wont try it.
By outofmind on Thursday, January 28, 2010 - 8:56 am |
Geez bigdees, guess it works both way. Does he share you at all? Hope so. But for the guys, just ease on in, SLOWLY.
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By lust4bbbws on Wednesday, February 10, 2010 - 2:33 pm |
I dream about but no woman will let me. Once they see my dick they all say HELL NO!