By flsunshine on Thursday, January 21, 2010 - 8:01 pm |
Hi all
You all give such good replies I thought I would ask here about some threesome questions. For those of you who do have threesomes do you
1. Try to get to know in person that third person you are thinking of bringing into the relationship you currently have?
2. Isn't this the norm, to meet before play?
3. Why would some who is willing to play not want to meet first?
4. Would you play with before you met?
The reason I ask is that there is a person that we are very much attracted to and I have chatted with this third person twice now over the last month. All goes well until I bring up meeting in person before we play. As soon as I suggest that we meet first he is gone, no good bye nothing just disappears off of IM . I really need some clue here as to what is happening. Thanks
By nannysbutterfly on Friday, January 22, 2010 - 11:30 am |
sounds to me like he's all talk and no action..maybe u should find someone else
By bigdees on Friday, January 22, 2010 - 11:47 am |
I agree w/Nanny but also maybe they are nervous after you see them you wont want to play?
By fawntana on Friday, January 22, 2010 - 2:02 pm |
Speaking from experience, if he doesn't want to meet first, he isn't truely interested. I always require a meet first because chemistry can be there in chats and text messages but a face to face meeting can change the chemistry. Also first meetings can be very akward and you don't want that akwardness when you are meeting to play.
By flsunshine on Sunday, January 24, 2010 - 1:04 am |
Thanks for the replies. I was kind of feeling the same way about the disappearing act. Fawntana I agree I really think first meetings are very important. We plan to stick to that and not get involved with anyone not willing to meet first.
By brody48 on Monday, January 25, 2010 - 8:51 am |
I would love to talk to you about this in person or phone. I love 3somes MFM and maybe there could be some chemistry. I am in Jax.
By outofmind on Thursday, January 28, 2010 - 9:06 am |
flsunshine, red flag!, red flag! Proceed cautiously. If the fa*rt doesn't want to chat about meeting first than what is it that he is hiding. I would SUGGEST you forget about this person and move on. Remember it is all for recreation for both you, hubby and the third should always feel priviledged. I must meet the third person and then he or she must be approve by both my wife and I. Secondly, the person may not find us to be the ones he/she is looking for. I am sure you can find the one that is a right fit for you and hub. Keep searching. It is either 100% or nothing. There is no in-between. Best Wishes.
The Latin Purple Devil ... Keeping It Real
By daisydukessbbw on Thursday, February 4, 2010 - 9:49 pm |
purple devil got this one right... red flags bigtime.. if this guy cant respect you enough to chat about it.. and just is gone when you ask.. well when people do that to me.. just disappear when chating, i figure its the connection or something.. booted.. but if i talk to them a few times and its always that way.. i delete them from my y... cant even say bye.. or be respectful.. means no more pics or chat.. ever..lol..if they come back saying hey i was booted again sorry then ok.. if they just vanish the same question every time.. screw that.. if its at random times.. it means wife who doesnt know just walked in..lol... you can tell by what else they are saying.. and if respect is always shown.. when playing.. respect is everything or there is no play..i am with out of mind on this one.. what is he hiding is right... i think he just gets his thrills by talking about it, not actually moving on with it as you want.. i vote.. ya dump him and find some one serious and honest.. good luck..learn to profile..lol @->-daisyhubs.