By mudrup41 on Sunday, March 28, 2010 - 12:27 am |
wife and I are thinking about sharing her but wanted to hear from others? Any shared wifes out there have any comments about being shared? want to hear the pro's and cons thnks
By tomcat44j on Sunday, March 28, 2010 - 9:18 am |
we tryed it a fue times just find a nice guy not to pushey
By fawntana on Sunday, March 28, 2010 - 9:59 am |
I'm a shared wife, but my husband doesn't get involved with who I see. He just waits for me to come home and tell him what happend. I personally like to keep a friend with benefits as opposed to a one time deal. It's worked out great for us so far.
By sexylaydeefl on Sunday, March 28, 2010 - 10:16 am |
You need to be sure you are prepared for the feelings that get involved on the woman's part. I agree that sometimes it is best to keep a friend with benefits (for safety reasons), however, with that you run the risk of developing feelings for the person. Women are emotional lovers and it is hard for some women to separate the emotions from the act. I always let my partner choose the man as it was more exciting for me that way. I have seen too many couples break up after choosing just one man to be their play partner because the wife fell in love with the playmate. Just go into it with your eyes open and talk about it openly and honestly. Nothing is worth jeopardizing your marriage over.
By mrsphotog on Sunday, March 28, 2010 - 11:02 am |
Hi Dee,
A very thoughtful and mature response.
Mrs. Photog ;)
By jerseyking on Sunday, March 28, 2010 - 7:15 pm |
ill share your wife with you
By fawntana on Monday, March 29, 2010 - 1:31 am |
I think I was a titch misunderstood. When I do meet someone that progresses into a friend with benefits type situation, it doesn't really last that long. Once the newness wears off it isn't as exciting anymore and eventually we grow apart. We remain friends but the physical part becomes few and far between. I just prefer to do it that way as opposed to dealing with several people at one time.
I do agree that women are emotional lovers but I haven't had any issues with that. I did however have one fall in love with me, but didn't inform me until he was deployed to Iraq. It was real bad there for a little while but it seems to have worked itself out now. Still, I know I will never be able to see him again because of his feelings.
I don't allow my husband to chose for me, but I keep him informed on who I am talking to and who I am interested in. The hunt and chase it part of the excitment for me. It all comes with the "cougar" title I guess. LOL!
By shypervert on Monday, March 29, 2010 - 1:46 pm |
Take the lead by making situations available...like hot tubs or flashing fun..things like that. It sets the mood and then let your lady give the signals if she wants more or not...depending on the mood and the type of guy sheis attracked to to wiether you have a sharing expierence or if you have a great incounter.... once the candle is lit she will decide hot it gets.
By kittycleaner on Monday, March 29, 2010 - 7:09 pm |
Good luck some things are left better as a fantasy.
By mrsphotog on Tuesday, March 30, 2010 - 9:32 am |
Kitty I think you may be right about that.
Sometimes fantasies are more erotic than the real thing.
By strokingman on Tuesday, March 30, 2010 - 10:20 am |
I can only speak from the third party point of veiw....Once was enough for and costly. She likes me more the her former husband! Had to move and hide for awhile cause for me she was an objected! I have learned my object lesson! No more sharing for me!
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