What to do????

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I am 25 yrs old been married 4yrs now..My hubby is 33..The past couple yrs hes been turning me down.I try to to get him to play around but he always tells me hes tired or hes not in the mood..I go nude most of the time and he doesnt pay attention at all...In the past 7 months we've only had sex twice and he doesnt last a mintue when we do..What is the cause?What can I do to get him more interested in me?

let me think a min.. ok.. young couple..no health probs there probably... so thats not it, couple yrs cold to you..... not that interested or making you pay for something in past... to tired or not in mood.. yet you are cumming on to him.. does he indeed work 2 full time jobs. if not. he is not to tired. and even then.. when i did for 20 yrs i was never to tired .. lol.. so thats not it.. 7 months. and twice.. doesn't look good... and a minute man when he does , come on now.. you cant go 3 months then come in a min.. and then nothing.. you would maybe cum in a min.. but do wild things all night long after waiting so long... so .. that dont look good... ok mostly nudist. now daisy is like this.. and ya its boring sometimes.. add a mini skirt and a sheer to top ok.. if he dont hit on that.. there is only one answer.. and it all points that way anyhow.... lets see. bbc4fun as a screename... ya i bet he is having fun.. but just not with you.. now what black man do you know. that goes that long with out.. and then a min. man.. doesnt add up now does it.. and advertises. by scname he is sexy one and wants to have fun.. i would say.. easy to figure out.. he is a bbc4fun.. but just not with you.. he is getting it elsewhere.. probably a white woman.. and you are like . old conquered news.. and he is bored with you naked all the time. spice it up a tad.. and put him on . i will watch your ass list.. cos hes cheating on you bigtime.. and doesnt feel he needs you .. you are old faithful at best i would say to him.. sorry but it is what the cards show. and they dont lie.. is he really going to work??.. or.. such long hours. ya right.. any man that age. is horny as hell ok.. you either really disgusted him somehow.. or betrayed trust. so now he is paying ya back .. or he likes other women more.. ok.. there ya go. sorry .. i know its hard to hear what we dont want to .. but . ya i would not trust him at all .. a 33 yr old man.. should be lovingly ravaging his young hot wife.. ..now let me ask you .. what does your woman's intuition say? that usually dont lie either.lol..i would watch his every move.. without him knowing.. and then file for a divorce when i caught his ass.. besides.. who want to be married to someone that is not all that into you.. . screw that.. wake up sweetheart.. sorry but.. ow...my crystal ball says it dont look good. lol... sorry again..if you have any other questions . or figure out i am right.. and have one. feel free to email me anytime..maybe he has a sexutary at work. who knows. but he is getting laid.. but you sure are not.. see where i am going with this.. of course could be. he is manic depressed .. and that can take out some urges too ok.. so its cheating... or depression..or he is paying you back.. is there some new bi-polar med not working out for him maybe the case.. they can kill sex drive and make you tired.. its one of the three. extreme stress can take out drive too.. but i still betting its the white whore down the street.. and your intuition is right. .. @->-daisyhubs.

only one other answer. he dont want to get you pregnant again... cos he is already working so hard.. and more kids are expensive.. so he is afraid of you .lol..did you have a child 7 months ago.. and things changed.. that can happen to.. do you give him the attention he needs.. i would have to ask a few other questions to pin it down.. but i dont think it would be hard to figure out. @->-daisyhubs.

does he keep a extra shirt in the car.. if he gets another womans perfume on him or lipstick on a white shirt..you know.. a extra one is nice if you dont keep a sm bottle of ponds cold cream in the trunk to take the lipstick off it. ya it works like magic..lol. ow no . now am giving out secrets.lol... look for any signs.. does he go straight to the shower when walking in the door.. avoiding you .. its hard to hid another woman's scent on you if you dont know what you are doing or aware of it.lol.. or does he say hi and kiss you first before claiming he needs a shower the second he walks in.. see.. look for the clues.. open your eyes. and it should not be hard to fugue out.. did you have a baby 2 yrs ago.. is he bi-polar and on meds.. look around.. the answers are right there in life.. if you know how to look.. profile his ass.. @->-daisyhubs.

anyway ,,i think i gave you good advice for the few sentences you gave only..the more i know. the easier it is to spot the problem...good luck, best wishes... @->-daisyhubs.

daisyhubs's crystal ball.. this thing works great.. i just love this thing... it says. profile him.. and you will have right answer.. easy to figure out... @->-

and remember.. it dont matter what people say.. its .. actions speak louder than words ok.. and the clues usually do add up.. and dont lie.. good luck. @->-hubs.

lay your cards on the table, have an open honest conversation..........can't hurt.sometimes men go thru a depression where they lose interest in sex........it happens.

lose interest in sex lol