How Do I Tell Her...

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Hello, I'm head over heels for a girl that I've known for a few weeks. She is a bbw and I know that she is not comfortable with her body but I am. I know at some point, I can just tell, that she's going to ask me why I find her attractive. How do I tell her so that it's not offensive or off putting. Really, she has about the most beautiful face I ever laid eyes on, her smile and eyes are hard to get past. If she lost weight I would be crazy about her just the same, but it doesn't matter to me either way. How can I explain this to her when she asks?

I think you did a pretty good job right there!!

Be honest with her and romantic and you will make her very happy.

be honest!!!!!! like your post here, tell her you think she's beautiful. and stop right there! not you're beautiful...BUT IF...

tell her that you love her for who she is and not what she looks like worked for me and been going out with my bbw for 8 yrs now personality and charm better than first impressions go for it and dont worry what other people think

Thank you all. Hopefully it all comes out right when it needs to. I do think that she's beautiful, no "buts" or "ifs". I'm falling in love for her for her personality, intellect, and looks. AFAIC, she's a bombshell, really when I look at a pic of her I just start to melt. Plus she's funny, and just amazing. I hope it turns into something really special.

you know, before i read what the sexxy kathlyn goddess/duddrwmn wrote.. i was so thinking the same thing. i think you said it all or close enough right there also..i also was thinking like kathlyns next sentence.. see the word honest..i see the honesty in what you wrote above.. show her that.. tell her you love her looks.. face and body and love big gorgeous goddess women.. and then post her in swimwear or something to start off.. and let her see the comments here to help her esteem and thinking.. but ya.. kathlyn so so got the right answer here.. she is a very smart woman.. i like everything she writes.. and she and i are giving you good advice.. hey... just tell her like it is.. the way you told us.. and ya. lay some romance on her at same time.. maybe a single perfect rose. or a nice dinner out. something.. tell her you love bbws.. and you dont care what others think.. ya!!!!.... keep those feet off the scales gals.. and dont believe hollyvierds lies and propaganda. BBWS ARE THE TRUE GODDESSES OF THE WORLD.. BLOSSOMED OUT TO PERFECTION..@->- also i think ya. personality and intellect is nice to point out to her also...love is a package deal.. not just size anyway.. .best wishes.. @->-daisyhubs.