Question for the Ladies regarding comments.


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By uk50dd on Tuesday, August 17, 2010 - 11:13 am

Hiya ladies,

I've been thinking about the post below from Charlieangel and the discussion it aroused.

What are your favourite type of pics you like to see in the men's section?

What encourages you to comment on the guys posts?

Why do you think women tend not to comment as much as the guys generally?

I'd be interested to hear what you think.

Regards ladies,

Dee (uk50dd)

By uk50dd on Tuesday, August 17, 2010 - 11:19 am

I feel I should at least contribute here.
My favourite type of men's pics are partially clothed, teasing pics. I love denim shirts and jeans, a strip tease, nice lighting if possible.

It's not just about a big cock shot, there's plenty of those here, and I do like looking at them too, but I feel it's hard (no pun intended) for me to come up with an original comment all the time.

I should think it could be the same for the guys too. And I know that the ladies who get the most positive and overwhelming response aren't always the "legs wide open" shots either.

What do you think?

By fanny on Tuesday, August 17, 2010 - 12:39 pm

I'm with you Dee, I like the teasing pics. Love an open shirt and pants unzipped, just a bit showing. Anticipation is half the fun!

As to comments, I am never quite sure what to say. If I'm familiar the man, makes it easier. What do you men like to hear......what we think or what we'd like to do with you?!!!
Fanny XOOX

By duddrwmn on Tuesday, August 17, 2010 - 1:02 pm

I absolutely love full-body pics - close-up cock pics all look the same after a while. And like you say striptease pics are very erotic.

I also like it when there's a little bit of a written intro or invitation at the top of the thread...

By squidge on Tuesday, August 17, 2010 - 2:59 pm

Ditto what all the other ladies said. I would like to add that I refuse to comment on the pics that are so obviously not representative of the real person. I don't like being treated as I am stupid and I know a 'borrowed' pic when I see one!!

By uk50dd on Tuesday, August 17, 2010 - 5:02 pm

Replies from three extremely respected ladies here. I'm so glad you took the time to answer.
Fanny, duddrwmn and squidge, your posts ALWAYS attract a huge amount of attention and praise.

Fanny - I too struggle with what to say sometimes to a man's posting, so sometimes don't leave a comment at all. Guilty - ooops! I will try and improve.

duddrwmn - my attention is grabbed by the heading at the top of the thread too. I like it when there is an invitation to look at the posting.

squidge - if I suspect there's a "borrowed" pic I will not comment. Although I don't tend to spot them very often. (I did spot my pics under another poster's name on a different site a couple of months back, I was furious 'lol!).

If any other ladies have ideas on how to increase comments, please let's hear them.

.... by the way, I think the guys on this site give us an amazing amount of positive comments, banter, advice, kindness, flirting and fun. Thank you and big hugs - Dee xxx

By just_buxom on Tuesday, August 17, 2010 - 5:34 pm

Hi Dee also hi Fanny and Squidge and as has been noted Ive not been around here for quite some time but this post Dee I couldnt pass up.

For me to be attracted to a guy's post it has to be from the get go. The title has to capture my attention. The ones that mention the size of their manhood will rarely get me looking but someone who takes the time to try and ensnare us with their title deserves a look see.

I love to see less flesh and more tease too sometimes. Love white shirts and denims and there have been some great posters doing just those sort of shots for us. I happen to love guys nipples (perhaps Ive mentioned it before! Lol) and also like also to see a man's back and know others of us like different parts of a man's body before we even get to the 'goodies!'

I do love the outside naked shots that one guy is known for doing and they are always so simply different but just on the nail. The novel posters too who put an awful lot of work into their posts to mark various dates in the calendar always make me smile.

I as well as some of the other girls here will also post comments on girls posts. We can admire each others flair and talents and shoes and undies and pearls and anything else that takes our fancy without wanting to 'be in their knickers!'

All this aside Ive not left any comments for anyone for some months and maybe should amend that but just wanted to add my six pennorth here for what its worth and say thanks for raising the issue Dee.

Love
Bux
x

By daisydukessbbw on Tuesday, August 17, 2010 - 5:46 pm

are you kidding me.. i have stared at this thread.. thinking dam .. daisyhubs feels so left out.. but when i see the buxom goddess return.. you know i cant keep quiet any longer.. bux.. wecum back.. you know i loves ya girl.. @->-daisyhubs.

By daisydukessbbw on Tuesday, August 17, 2010 - 5:48 pm

squidge.. its nice to see you back on the site also... @->-

By daisydukessbbw on Tuesday, August 17, 2010 - 5:53 pm

and i agree with every word you women are saying. and understand your comments totally.. and ty dee and kathlyn and shy for the comments on my post..@->-daisyhubs.
ps.. a special ty to bux.. or i would not have had those pics to post after my puter crash.. ty bux.. @->-

By badboybob on Tuesday, August 17, 2010 - 7:07 pm

So many of My Good Friends are on this post !!!!
for once I have nothing to say on the subject ...
MUST BE THE 1ST TIME EVER MY BROTHER HUBS N MYSELF HAVE DAM ALL TO SAY !!!!!!!!
But I will join him in his above remarks !
and a special welcum back to our lovely friend bux !!!!!!!!
Billy
Dublin Ireland

By daisydukessbbw on Tuesday, August 17, 2010 - 7:44 pm

ow i got plenty to say billy , i just didnt go into it... lol...

By uk50dd on Wednesday, August 18, 2010 - 5:07 am

daisyhubs..... sorry if I got you feeling all left out, you are always more than welcome to contribute (big hug from me!)

badboyboy..... you and your good friend hubs always leave fantastic comments on our postings, thank you.

bux.... lovely bux, thank you for coming out to play today. It's been such a long time since you regularly posted and I for one miss you dearly. I hope you are well, and start posting again. Your intelligence, humour, imagination, kindness and sense of fun are missed on this site. - Dee xxx

By badboybob on Wednesday, August 18, 2010 - 7:11 pm

THANK YOU Dee
I am honored to post on your beautiful pix
Billy XXXX

By just_buxom on Thursday, August 19, 2010 - 5:45 pm

Dee thank you for the lovely comment. It is much appreciated and I too am honoured you think of me in those terms.

Love Bux x

By midlandmale on Friday, August 20, 2010 - 11:53 am

Dee a great subject to raise here
Although i havnt posted much lately ( well hardly at all to be honest ! )I too when i first posted used to post just the usual cock pics,
and often used to wonder why there were hardly any comments !

I did raise the subject on here and had a great responce from many of the ladies in this post and was given some fantastic advice.

If any guys are thinking of posting listening to the wonderful words on here will help no end. I think you will definately get a good responce .

As Dee mentioned it isnt always the " legs wide open " pics that do it for me from the ladies either. I absolutely love the teasing tantalising pics they are fantastic and it shows that you dont have to show it all to be very sexy.

So any guys looking in that are new take the advice from some of my very favourite ladies ever on the site ..............

Yes thats you gorgeous Dee, sexy Squidge and a lovely welcome back to beautiful Bux great to see you posting again here hun

By squidge on Saturday, August 21, 2010 - 4:09 pm

*Mid, Ty for those lovely words.....now lets all chant for the choccie buttons! You know what I mean and so do the other girls here......choccie buttons yayyyyyy ;)

By midlandmale on Saturday, August 21, 2010 - 8:14 pm

Squidge i knew you would bring that up lol
That was a forfeit not a choice lol

By just_buxom on Sunday, August 22, 2010 - 3:47 am

But you had been a bad boy Mids.......... And Squidgy has asked nicely and Im seconding the request so now your response is? Lol x

By uk50dd on Monday, August 23, 2010 - 4:39 am

CHOCOLATE BUTTONS! CHOCOLATE BUTTONS! CHOCOLATE BUTTONS! CHOCOLATE BUTTONS!!!!!!!

By midlandmale on Monday, August 23, 2010 - 5:40 am

Oh God what have i done now ! lol
Yes Bux i was a bad boy lol
Dee do you want something hun ? feeling peckish lol

Well seeing as its three of my most favourite gorgeous sexy ladies on here i better do as im told ..............lol
Will sort it asap ladies

By midlandmale on Monday, August 23, 2010 - 5:40 am

Oh God what have i done now ! lol
Yes Bux i was a bad boy lol
Dee do you want something hun ? feeling peckish lol

Well seeing as its three of my most favourite gorgeous sexy ladies on here i better do as im told ..............lol
Will sort it asap ladies

By midlandmale on Monday, August 23, 2010 - 5:56 am

dont know what happened there !

By midlandmale on Monday, August 23, 2010 - 6:56 am

Squidge , Bux and Dee i have honoured your request lol you naughty devils lol

By uk50dd on Tuesday, August 24, 2010 - 5:14 am

Fantastic M M , thank you!

By miles_long on Tuesday, August 24, 2010 - 4:34 pm

I want to thank ALL the HOT Ladies that post comments on my threads in the guy's section.
They are way too kind.
Thank you so much Ladies.

By uk50dd on Thursday, August 26, 2010 - 4:04 am

You are more than welcome miles. You give us a whole lot of pleasure lookiing at your wonderful pics.

By babz on Thursday, August 26, 2010 - 8:36 pm

love full body pics with a little drip of pre cum or after you cum... hmmmm


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