Why do women love assholes?

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Why do good women love jerks? Don't they know there are wonderful men right under their noses?

Sometimes I just don't get it.

I agree. I'm a cop and I have to break up arguments and physical fights all the time and I wonder the same thing. Remember though We only see what's not behind closed doors. Some of those women put on a good show, but aren't all that innocent. Some people just don't know how to treat each other.

its been defined i believe as in human nature 101..by the pros as being...a woman will want psychologically the a-hole. due to fact that she herself doesnt even understand most the time.. but it is said that she will want the strongest offspring ,, in the animal world.. the bucks fight for the doe.. the strongest winning the prize.. some women are no different.. they want the nice guy as a best friend maybe.. but they are attracted to the jerk for sex... once they find out the jerk is all childish and immature.. then it causes divorce...see it all the time..also.. confidence is attractive to anyone usually... and the a-holes usually have plenty of that..all i see in them is a overgrown baby.. a macho a-hole gaston(beauty and the beast), baby, that never grew up...they figure also the a-hole might be better at sex... truth is... he is so selfish and self centered he dont care about them or if they cum.. its all about him.. and his needs.. listen to them.. profile them.. all they say is me, my, i and did i tell you about me and my and mine.. always the same words from them... but the nice guy sees this.. but the women dont seem to.. lots of divorce due to this fact...and yes the nice guy is usually there hurting inside to see a friend screwed over again and again by these men... but some women just never learn either and only date a-holes.. i have a ex that is this way... not sure who is more selfish.. her or her men... both seem very childish to me.. she dates only the very very very bottom of the barrel men.. they are tough.. but losers.. 3rd grade schoolyard bully's that never grew up...it always leads to a bad end.. i watch it over and over.. she is so dumb.. and she wonders why she has relationship problems.. and always blames them.. however.. she puts herself in that situation.. but takes no responsibility for that.. both women and men like this need to be avoided.. they are selfish or dumb.. and you dont need to be involved.. it can only lead to emotional pain.. they think the a-hole will protect them better.. but he wont.. he is to selfish.. and usually when you get one of these a-holes alone.. they start crying or some chit.. and are such cowards in the real world.. they dont care about others.. only self.. i find that they act all tough. but when the chips are down.. i figure things out. and get by... the macho babies fall apart. and whine a lot..lol.. of course our prison system is full of bad boys.. that cant make it in the real world.. gangland babies and fools.. now look at what you said here.. good women.. you are so wrong.. they are not good women if so attracted to trash.. you need one more mature than that to be a truly good woman.. my advice.. dont get involved with a woman that is attracted to trash.. she will only cheat on you some day.. i know a few women that married a-holes...they now live alone with thier children.. always saying bad things about the father.. and it is all true.. so sad.. the poor children are product of divorce due to this .. age old problem.. and if you try to be a a-hole so you dont take so much collateral damage and such... it only makes a war in your own mind... after a couple weeks , you go back to being happy as your nice guy self anyway...lol..i have met men that are total a-holes.. when i said something about it.. one of them told me.. oh its all a act.. cos it attracts the women better..course he was one in a million.. most are just giant babies.. lol..and why do the men act this way you ask.. watch the movie. "187".. it says it all.. cos its all they got.. they cant think or care. so macho baby chit is all they got.. see how it is.. sucks i know.. but true.. best wishes.. @->-daisyhubs.

there's a difference in being a nice guy and in being a push over or a bore. I think you should figure out if you really are a "nice guy" or one of the other two.

I admit I'm a mouthy jerk but I do have manners and respect and I manage to USE them. My wife likes the "Bad Boy" type but says that doesn't mean guys who are arrogant and egostistical just guys who aren't feminine or meek. Being an ••••••• to the world and being one to your lady are two different things...I know because I cross the line once in a while...Confidence and Dominance in the bedroom is good, Being a DICK in public isn't....

Sometimes I am a "WELCOME MAT". It is hard for me to say no. Even when I know I shouldn't be nice, I am. I have been through the ringer several times. Since my wife was killed seven years ago, I have been just wondering around, lost. I guess I am still not over the tragic way she was killed. Sometimes, I guess, it is better to not acknowledge certain things in your life and just go on with it. Maybe that is why I am always so nice and helpful to others ? I have to pull myself out of this sprialling black hole and learn to live again.

I tell ya guys the nice girls can also finish last. I have been single a very long time and cant seem to spark any interest.

Maybe all that glitters(Good Women) isn't Gold.

Women want to "play" with a bad boy, and settle down with a good boy.

I Met a guy ten years ago that was a Prince he was 27, 5 years ago my heaven turned into hell. He was diagnosed as Bi-polar. I've been told by his Dr's that most don't show signs til their 30's and not to blame myself that sometimes people change due to a disease. and it is a disease of the Brain Chemistry. I've lived in especially the last year going to divorce him now and just put a personal ad out on this site for OH. I hope I can find a good man. I still beleive in love and when he comes along I'll never hurt him.

women also like to think they can help someone change for the better & it doesnt work.

aha