What do you think???

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Once a week I have to open up for an evening meeting and the lady who runs it seems to be flirting with me more and more....after opening up for this lady for a couple of years with nothing more than a hello from her all of a sudden she is very chatty to me and asking me if I like what she's wearing or did I notice her new shoes usually things like that....my wife thinks I'm imagining things or that she is just looking for compliments but the other night I had dropped my keys and as I knelt down to pick them up she put her foot up on a chair and asked if I liked her new shoes and weren't they sexy...when she did that she gave me a good long look at the red thong she was wearing under her dress...even after that my wife still thinks I'm crazy because this lady is almost 70 years old but I don't think I am....what do you ladies and gents think?

SOMETIMES WOMEN JUST LIKE TO KNOW THEY ARE ATTRACTIVE TO THE OPPOSITE SEX.THEY NEED TO KNOW THEY STILL HAVE "IT", JUST MY THOUGHTS.SHE MAY JUST WANT A COMPLIMENT OR A FLIRT ........ MANDY

What is the issue? Do you think a 70 year old old is not a sexy woman? Take my word, they are hot as hell. If the issue is fidelity, simply just ignore her advances. If fidelity is not the issue, make the most of her advances. Take it from one who knows of what he speaks.

Looks like you agree with my wife Mandy...she'd probably say great minds think alike. Graystone age isn't an issue since I've had a thing for older women for many years now but that's another story. Guess I'll just have to wait and see what next week brings.....thanks for responding.

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mandy has it right to a point.. ya they do at that age still need to" have it" maybe.. however.. see the key word you typed also. sexy...the shoes being sexy... and showing the thong.. maybe she does want more to feel desired and figures she may not live that long at that age and wants some before she goes also.. and finds you attractive.. it could go both ways .. you will have to wait and notice if she is this way with other men as well or just you .. if she is this way with others then she has not got you singled out.. but she may have.. i would say you are right... just have to wait and see what happens next.. what card she plays next.. but she is looking for attention i will say that.. otherwise she would not point things out to you .. so you answered your own question.. and got it right .. ya will have to wait and see... yeppers...she might have found her courgar sexy side.. @->-daisyhubs.

greystone is onto something as well maybe test her.. and make most of it.. that way you will find out for sure rather if you go though with it or not...lol... but if she was just wanting to know if she looked good still why would she use the word sexy.. wouldnt she just say doesnt this look good on me.. or something why she say sexy.. ya she wants to know if you think she still got it ... sexy indicates that.. but how much more.. you will have to play her advances or wait and see another couple cards from her.. @->-daisyhubs.

It's been hot and humid around here and the other night when she was walking in she stopped at the office to ask if the a.c. was on and when I told her it was she said "Thank goodness because I don't think anyone would want to see me sitting there in my undies" and I answered "I guess that all depends on the undies...the less the better as far as I'm concerned." She laughed and said " You say that but do you really mean it?" and she started to walk away as I said " I'd be happy to see yours anytime you want to show them to me." She laughed again but then said "I'll wear something to show you next week but you'll have to wear something to show me first." When I told my wife she said she still thinks she's just looking for attention but that she'll pick something for me to wear to show her....so now I'm looking forward to next week to see what happens. So Mandy, Daisy and Grayestone what do you think will happen?

i think actions speak louder than words ok.. if she was really interested in the ac unit then she would have not left so fast and would have been right under it..also.. why is she so concerned to be in her undies.. to show you ... and wanting you in yours. she was cking in.. to find out if you were serious about anything.. as you played along.. so did she.. ya she is a cougar and on the prowl.. and got you as her target.... first clothing off to undies.. now whare do you think it will go after that.. to undies off to i would think.. cos there is no reason in normalcy to be in undies there in the first place.. she wants attention all right... and not just someone looking.. she wants more.. and why would she want to see you in undies...it just dont add up.. unless she is shopping... and she got sights on you now doesnt she.. if it was innocent.. she would not be advertising her undies.. or looking for sexy ones for next week now would she.. at her age.. she wants some before she moves on to older and thinking she wont be attractive anymore or dead.. i think she wants it... cos thats the way she is stacking the dominos now isnt it.. otherwise how many women come into your office and want to take it off.. in my office several women have done this.. and every one of them wanted more...seems like a old game to me ok... a woman wouldnt act that way unless she wants something... ya she wants you to show her something alright.. and its not your ac unit.. but she has another unit in mind..my guess is she has played this office game before.. and is playing you like a fiddle now.. old pro..lol.. @->-daisyhubs.

also.. she could claim.. he seen my undies a little sticking out as i was under the ac.. and then took his pants off.. i smell a sexual harassment lawsuit possible also ok..a wise man never fully trusts a woman unless she has proven herself to him ok.. so i would not trust her either.. tell her if she wants to see more then it would have to be outside of the office and off that property would be my advice.. and that she has to show first.. not you .. see her asking to see yours first... thats not safe.. i would stash a pocket tape recorder somwhare.. and record if she was in your office to protect yourself if needed also... she may not be after you .. but be after company money as she takes you down in a bad way.. so careful ok.. would be my advice.. things here just dont add up ok.. she may be a spider.. there are lots of them out there.. and she is acting like one a tad.. baiting you .. she has to show first, not you ... record the room.. when she steps in.. or make a appointment off the property would be my advice.. dont trust her either way would be my advice till you know more.. it could all be a set up..her motive may not be sexual.. cos she is not playing a couple cards right there.. it could be to increase her retirement acct by the way she is acting.. some women will instigate things.. then drop the ball on ya head.. careful ok.. she may be quite selfish and could really care less about you @->-daisyhubs.

i would tell her.. if ya want to talk it would be across the street.. in a dinner or something.. and then if she wanted to go somewhere.. but at work it has to be kept all legit due to legal issues...it looks like she is setting you up pal.. i would avoid her like the no tomorrow on the office prop.. and only see her .. that way. off the prop.. would be my advice.. just to be safe..change the game up to your in control not her and you will find out what she really is after or interested in.. ok..tell her.. if ya want anything it would only be outside of the office.. never in it.. and see if she suddenly changes her game or not.. if she still tries something at the office after that.. tell her i explained it to you about the office... if ya want something like that.. its only off this property and separate from work... see if she still wants anything after that... she is acting like a spider.. i would be so careful ok.. watch every step you take.. cos spiders always bite.. every time cos that is what they do..if she is ok on the office prop after that and still wants to play.. ok maybe.. but if she still is all over ya in the office.. cut her off fast.. and never, never do anything unprofessional in that office or on that prop ok.. @->-daisyhubs.

remember.. its biz first then all else after ok.. protect your job even if your wife is looking for new sexy undies for you and not seeing this ok.. its your job to protect yourself and your income first no mater what any woman does ok..if the older woman really wants you or someone.. she will respect the legal issues.. if she is a spider she wont.. ok.. keep ya eye on the ball here ok.. you are on way way dangerous ground.. hey thats just where spiders like to keep ya... easy to be holding the bag when all hell breaks loose.. i would be real .. walk softly with a big stick eyes wide open if i was you ok.. @->-daisyhubs.

this woman is so acting like a spider. i would watch my ass if i was you .. watch what head ya thinking with ok.. cos its not worth it otherwise ok.... just a "heads" up ok... @->-hubs.

Thanks for the advice Daisy...and I'm thinking with the right head just so you know. Let you know what happens...

Don't know if anyone is still following this but here's an update...my wife still didn't think anything would happen and if anything did at most it would be a look what I'm wearing moment and that's it. That night I asked my wife what I should wear and she opened her dresser draw and said "Your choice red thong with the bow or leopard print panties...I prefer the leopard but it's up to you." Going with her choice I told her leopard print and she tossed me the panties and the bra that was underneath them and when I tried to talk her out of it she said it was my decision and I should stick with it if I wanted to have some fun when I got home later. So off I went wearing a leopard print bra and panties under my polo and shorts and a hard on from my wife rubbing me while telling me how she was going to start sucking me as soon as I got home. I got to work a little early and there she was waiting for me at the end of the walkway. As we walked up to the door she quietly said to me "I'm wearing something special, I hope you are too." As I unlocked the door and held it open for her I said"Yes I am and I'm looking forward to showing you and seeing yours." At the meeting room I opened the door and turned on the lights and she stepped right up to me and she unbuttoned her blouse to show me a bright blue bra that was holding some nice tits. Saying your turn she took a step back and looked down to watch as I loosened my pants and revealed the leopard print panties I was wearing. She then loosened her pants and said I'll drop mine if you drop yours. Dropping her pants I saw that she was wearing matching bright blue undies and she saw the panties I was wearing. Turning around she showed me that hers was a thong and then she said your turn to me and I turned around for her. When I was facing her she asked if mine were panties and I told her that they were my wifes and she had picked them out for me to wear. "Really?" she asked and then she smiled at me and asked "Are they part of a matching set like mine?" And when I nodded she said "Show me." As I pulled my shirt up to show her she said "Your wife is a naughty one and very trusting." With that she bent over and pulled up her pants and I did too and we were both quickly dressed again. She then went about setting up for her meeting and I didn't see her till afterwards when she stopped by on the way out and said "We should do this again sometime. See you next week." and she left. Got home and got some great sex with the wife who now isn't so sure it's just an older lady who wants some compliments and that we'll talk about it.

wow... thanks for the update. i was wondering how it went... a bra... really.. thats wild.. i would not wear a bra... but whatever ..anyway.. i think she wants to play show and tell a tad more... but in time it will go to more.. one thing leads to another and she is playing dominos.. for now its. show me.. in time it will be show me more i would think.. she is taking her time about it is all.. and yes your wife is way way trusting.. nice you are so honest with her and all... that builds your trust and is great.. as for the other woman.. she wants more in time.... its all she has done so far.. so why would that change... maybe meet her off the prop.. say at your house for dinner... get you some fmf action from them both... this lady likes you and wants more and more in time i am thinking...if she went this far.. she will probably go the rest of the way.. up the path to your front door.. careful at work though.. cant believe you wore a bra..you must have had on a coat over your shirt.. dont think ya want other men to see a strap on you or a bra line under the shirt...lol... keep us updated.. but its all pointing to a fmf thing now as far as i can see in time if ya play cards right...maybe you are a cross dresser... cos they do sell guy thongs....not sure why you wore your wifes clothing.... best wishes.. @->-daisyhubs.

Another update if anyone is still following...after that you show me yours and I'll show you mine it's been mostly just talk like " you wearing anything you want to show me?" as she passes the office or when we're walking down the hall together but nothing else. But every week I tell her pretty much the same thing "If you really want to see more you should come over for coffee sometime." Usually she laughs but a couple of times she's said "Be careful because I might just take you up on it." Then the other night she said she would call me this week and see if we could get together for that coffee I keep offering. She called yesterday and said she couldn't make this week but was free next week and so now I'm waiting to see if she shows up next week. Will keep you posted if anything happens and anyone is interested.