BBWSex4u: BBW Discussions: Question??? Naughty BBW talk???

Wife and I are curious as to how many others have VERY frank and naughty talk about size/shape/fat...do other people also play like this?

As an example: wife loves teasing me about "going for the easy fat slut" and much worse...is this common???

my wifes chuncky and she gets upset
i rub her belly and she says dont play w my phat
and moves my hand to her breasts

I am 4'10 320 lbs and for many conversations about and playing with my belly was a turn off. after my lover starting kissing my belly after hot sex sexxions and photographing me in lingerie it has become a huge turn on for me. I can tell you it is not for all bbw's but for me it's become a requirement!

Kisses
Cassie

I want to share an experience I had quite a few years ago - on this very site. Also please refer to the thread (a few below this one) called "Its Time".

I agree fully with the original author of that thread. I, personally, would never call any woman a slut, pig, whore, fat, etc. All the women here are beautiful and gorgeous, each in their own way!
Anyways...It was around 2005. I was writing ficitonal stories here in the Story Section. I had saw a few pic posts at that time with titles "Use Me - I'm a Slut" or "Use me I'm a Fat Pig".
Typically, this flags me to think "this is a guy posting pics". So I paid no attention and did not comment. Anyways, I got an email after that from this poster who had read my stories and wanted me to write a personal story for them. Again - I'm thinking this is a guy, not interested! So the person emailed again. I responded this time with "No thanks not interested in guys". The person then replied with "I'm a woman - I'll prove it".
So we exchanged Msgr contacts and got on cam and yup - she is a she - and a BBW!

So we can cam sex and phone sex. Almost immediately I knew this was not going to work for me. I wrote a story for her. She wanted it to be a "feeder / feedee" story with food and her weight gain. She loved to be called a "fat pig slut whore cumbucket" etc etc etc. This turned her on hugely, and was her "release".

The more dirty, degrading and vile the conversation was (about her) - the better. The more dirty language used about her weight (fat, slob, pig, cow) the better --- for her!

I'm not that type of guy, so it really was a turnoff for me and ended quickly. I told her she needed to find another guy who liked telling her these things. We never actually met - and she did move on, I'm sure...

Bottom Line: I think the majority of people think that its the men initiating these "Slut" or other "Degrading" threads. Well sometimes, its not the case!

Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and likes. In our case, my partner knows that i LOVE bigger woman and always have. I can assure you that i have had multiple woman who really wanted this type of play. I think there is a big difference between someone who is being mean with the use of these words, and my partners will agree - though they will also say that they have masturbated over entertaining people who have said those things.

Hope to receive some more input. Very interesting topic that gets to deeply intimate areas.

Cassie, good for you...would you share what impact it's had on your view of yourself?

what ever works for you do it.

My wife does not really understand how I can find her so incredibly sexy. But she remembers my telling her what I love about her body word for word. She even has shared it with her female friends. I love her big heavy breasts, her soft round belly, her smooth soft thighs, that little line below her belly that seems to frame her mound and the puffy appearance of her pussy. Damn I get turned on just thinking about it.

hubby loves my curves, Adores me. enjoy being bbw and being appriciated for that. love curves felt during sex. if we don't like we can diet. i will just eat my cream cake.

G and I are both big people (BBW/BHM). We love each other and accept our curves for sure. Degradation or name-calling is not something we enjoy. Occasionally, if the moment is right, the words, "slut" or "fuck-toy" may come out in the heat of passion, but it's certainly not anything we rely on in foreplay.

i agree with txwingman, i keep telling my wife just how much i love her body, all the curves, love kissing her from head to toe. At night, run my hand over her her huge and soft belly...still gets me excited.

Im a bbw and he teases me playfully about it all the time,but always tells me thats why he loves me so much !!!!!

I think to each there own if that is what truns both on or she is willing to do it for you then I dont see anything worng with it I would love to talk to my wife like that and she is willing to do it.

I love to be called a dirty whore or filthy slut during sex, but never fat. I think I'd dry right up. lol