BBWSex4u: BBW Discussions: iam naked..but dont look at me!

why is it that some women will go to a nude beach lay there with their legs wide open..and then get offended when a guy looks at them? or how about the ones who wear low cut tight fitting tops and tight short, shorts and then if a guy looks at them they act like hes doing something wrong? i always found that fasinating because i wear tight revealing clothes sometimes and it dosent offend me when guys look..hell even on the nude beach i dont mind guys checking me out. i figure if iam going to display myself guys are gonna look..its just human nature. whats everyone elses take on this? am i right or am i missing something?

Sandrakay,
I know just what you mean. When I go to the nude
beach there are not alot of women so I know I will get looked at. Then there are days or nights
when I dress to impress. Other days a t-shirt and jeans are good. I am never offended when a man looks at me. Like you said it's human nature! I look too!

I will admit it is human nature to look
but thinking Sandra and Sherry, would not matter what either of you was wearing, guys will always look at you
both are very beautiful ladies and clothes cannot hide your attractive face and figures hehehe
I can only think that some ladies may get tired of being looked at some days, and possibly have other worries which may come out as being upset by being "perved on"
Also I think of what sort of attention is given to a lady looking lovely and attractive and especially on a nude beach
if the looking and admiring is done with a polite and kind manner it most likely would be flattering
while more agressive and possibly offensive attention may result in the reaction you mention

well I think I have rambled enough LOL
just my thoughts and opinions

i had a chat with some woman on line about gunnison beach a few weeks ago and she was complaining about the guys there looking at her and how they were perverts just there to look at naked women. i said then why do you go if thats how you feel? and she said because i want an all over tan. so i suggested she go to a tanning salon this way she can get her tan without anyone looking at her and she said why should i have to hide away just because of the perverts on the beach? that thinking confused me. why get a full body tan if you have a problem with people seeing you naked? things are what they are and you either except how it is or dont go. thats like going to a resturant and then getting mad when the waiter comes to take your order..lol..just because iam in the restuarant you just assume i want something to eat?...lol..AH,,YEA! if your lying naked on a beach of course the guys are going to think you want to be looked at.

yes well thinking there must be more private places than a nude beach for a lady to get an all over tan

oh and yes I am a pervert LOL
just a polite one

i agree ausfoley. and for the record iam a perv also because i love checking out all the cocks on the beach

Well Sandra that is natural too
and I think most men there would like you to check them out hehehe

well that is as long as you like what you see LOL

Well sandra I guess that because I am a heterosexual man that thinks women's bodies are beautiful, according to your acquaintance I am a PERVERT. The good thing is that I am in the company of every other normal man.

Some people r uptight and pompous, some want u to look and still get upset.I do try to b discrete . When I see a sexy well groomed lady I look. Never been to a nude beach but im sure i'd b staring a bit too . And When I see a full figured women acting proud and sexy i look A bit longer...can't help myself guess I'm a perv too
Love when Sandra and Sam post !

my question to women who dont like guys checking them out is this...why are you wearing a tight low cut top that shows lots of cleavage and a really tight short dress then? is it for medical reasons?..lol..i dont think so. wear clothes that cover you up better then and you will get less attention. if you want an all over tan but dont want to be looked at then go to a tanning salon. truth is though those same women that make these claims are full of ••••. they like being looked at..they just dont want to admit it for some reason. i say be honest about it and stop acting like you dont like it..because if you really didnt like it you could dress diffrently and avoid the nude beach and your problem would be solved. i openly admit that i like when guys check me out. it makes me feel good about myself. thats why i post my pics, because i like reading all the comments guys and girls make about them. back in 2001 i was in a yahoo group for people who liked gunnison beach and this same discussion came up there. i posted my thoughts about the whole thing and then went on vacation for a week. when i got back and checked the site again i found that it fractured...the people that thought like i did about gunny beach actually revolted and started their own site...lol. lets face it people nudity equals sexuality..we cant help that its the way we are built. thats why we cant walk around on the streets naked. its like those guys who walk around with their wives/girlfriends who are half naked and as soon as another guy looks at her they get all offended..cover up more and less guys will be checking her out. we all know the rules of society so if you want to bend those rules or break them then you have to be prepared for what will come from that. you cant exspect the rest of the world to fall in line with your way of thinking. i guess what iam saying is stop trying to make the rest of the world change to suit you but instead change your own behaviour to achieve the out come you want.

Sandra and Sam, would love to see either one of you naked on a beach, or anywhere else.

I have noticed that also about women that dress showing lots of cleavage, leg, etc. Get all upset when they catch you looking, and sometimes their guy does too.

I love for my wife to dress sexy and show off her tit's, leg's, etc. I like it when guy's check her out and it get's her juices going too.

I don't understand it either and often wondered, like you can see a woman at the beach in a skimpy bikini, you and she thinks nothing about it, at least most of them don't. The next day you can see her in a store with a short skirt on, get a good view up her skirt seeing panties and get all turned on, and she get's mad if she catches you.

i dont want to keep rambling on about this so in closing i guess all iam saying is that if you dont want guys looking at you when your on the nude beach then dont go to the nude beach and if you dont want guys eyeing you up on the street then dont walk around with your tits and ass hanging out. its like fishing..if you dont bait the hook the fish wont bite..but if you do your gonna get alot of nibbles..lol.

Its not that they don't want someone to look. If its not the one that they want to look, then he's just a pervert.

the pervert

I LOVE WEARING LOW CUT TOPS AND GETTING A SMILE WHEN MEN WALK BY.MAKES ME FEEL SEXY. NEVER BEEN TO A NUDE BEACH.I WOULD FEEL OK GOING TOPLESS.XOX MANDY

I like to look at attractive women and I hope like Mandy they enjoy the smile but some people go too far and then the look becomes an obnoxious leer and it doesn't matter where you are or what you're wearing or not wearing....obnoxious is obnoxious and no one likes that.

Ok, I am going to be bluntly honest here. If I were going to a nude area and saw Sherry laying out naked, I would stare at her so long and hard, I would have to visit an eye dr after leaving. And if masterbating makes one go blind, I would certainly be blind before I could leave.

In fact, she could even slap me for staring and I would not mind as it would be worth it.

Larry......No need to go blind after me.
If we came across each other I would welcome
alll your stares. In fact one time at the
nude beach several men masturbated while
the hubby took pics. It was very exciting.
Not to mention that we had a great MFM because
of that day!!!

Thanks hun.

xoxoxoxo

Sherry

easy to see why you had guys masturbating over you on the beach Sherry
and sounds like one guy got very VERY lucky!!

I find it interesting that I have only ever heard American women complain about men looking at them.It seems that women in the rest of the world take it as affirmation that they are indeed attractive.

We musicians have an expression (I'm sure actors and dancers etc. have the same one): If you don't want people looking at you, stay off the stage. If you lay naked on a public beach, or if you go out dressed provocatively, you're on stage. So when people look, don't bitch.

ya i dont get it eather a lot dress sexy just wanting the guys thay want to look at them but it dosent work that way if i dress slutty im fare a bout it everyone can see what im showing my hubby loves me to were a lose low top and short skirt everywere we go in the summer with nothing under and i love dresses that way for all to see