Listen y'all, I have a problem, and I'm so confused.
As I type this, all that I am thinking about is her.
There is this lady that I like a lot, I mean a whole lot. I mean, she is everything that a man would want in a lady, plus.
She is funny, sexy hot, cool and just an awesome person! I could listen to her talk all day long. And when we talk or text, she always make me laugh, and of course, I try to do the same for her.
We talk on the phone everyday. I mean we talk about everything; nothing is off limit...and when I say nothing, I mean nothing! Well, that's not exactly all true, there is one thing that I am afraid to talk to her about. I will tell you about that in a few.
I could be having the worse day, and when she text or call me...it's all better.
Sometimes I just sit there and stare at the phone, waiting for her to text or call. And when my phone rings and its not her, it pisses me off.
Like I just said, we talk all of the time, I'm talking about 5,6 7 , and sometimes, maybe more times than that, depending on the length that we talk or if she can talk.
Now that is where the problem comes in... you see she is not married or engaged, but she does have a boyfriend... and even worse; they stay together.
I know about him, but he does not know about me.
But lately, I have been having deeper and deeper feelings for this lady, and now I am even starting to feel jealous when they are together and I cant talk to her or be with her my self.
Now to let you know, we have never had sex, even though we have been sexting and talking dirty for years!
Now, what I am confused about is, I don't know how she sees me?
I don't know if she sees me as a really good friend that she can trust and talk openly to, or as something more... possible a boyfriend or the potential to become her boyfriend someday.
Sometimes when we talk, the conversation is mostly about him...I can tell that she really likes him a lot, but the way I feel about her; I want to be that him.
Sometimes when we talk, not all of the time, but sometimes when we talk, I want to just come out and ask her, but I am too afraid that she will say, "No you didn't ask me that. I thought that you were different, but I see you're just like every other guy, and all I want to do is to get into my pants. I thought that we were cool, but now I see that you are just a man!" and then she would mostly stop talking to me forever, and I don't want that, because I really enjoy her friendship...even though as I said earlier, I would love to be the one who kisses her goodnight, every night before she goes to bed.
The mixed messages that I am getting is driving me crazy...oh yeah, by the way, sometimes when I call her, she will answer the phone with, "Hey baby." Or "What's up love?"
Please let me know what you think? should I pursue this thing and ask her, or should I just leave it alone and wait for something definite?
By northtexassoul on Wednesday, April 12, 2017 - 12:50 pm:
You should tell her how you feel and then leave it up to her. Don't put pressure on her an stay in the friend zone until she decides on her own.
By luvitslick on Tuesday, April 18, 2017 - 1:33 pm:
Fill her pussy for him he may like what he finds in her and not mind sharing with you.
