Your Opinion On Society and Larger Women or Men

I was just wondering what the various people and or couples here think of the sexiness of larger women vs larger men. Do you think that society thinks larger women are more beautiful or sexy than larger men are handsome or sexy?

Maybe there is a general society opinion and then those that are on this website have a bit of a different opinion? Just curious.

So what are your thoughts, do you think society thinks these days that larger women are more beautiful than before and what might be the thought on men of a larger size?

Then what are your thoughts of this specific online community here? Are women more sexy to the opposite sex than the larger men are to the opposite sex?

Might be some good discussions and insight to your opinions.

Sexy is all in how you handle yourself, be confident
dress and act sexy, you don't necessarily have to be slutty

This is true. There is something sexy to the imagination at times.

Society in my opinion had rejected the large person, man or woman. Large people are viewed as being unhealthy and undisciplined because they are not of an approved weight and size. I have always been attracted to large ladies and I have been with all types of women. Overall I have found the large ladies to be far more sensual and loving. They also feel much better than most slender women in my opinion. My wife enjoys being slutty at times but it is her eyes and her personality that make her desirable.

I (hubby) agree with showinggrain 101%......after my divorce of 26 years.....I dated a variety of women....always a friend of a friend/co-worker/and bar-pickups (present wife)...
never anything on-line....(we're talk'in I was 47 or 48 at the time)
I always was drawn to and had better times with the larger ladies...
Unfortunately...a lot of larger ladies have been beaten down by society that they lack self-confidence....which causes stress in a relationship (my first wife)......she was always concerned with what others thought then me....
But!!!!! many of us men are also to blame.....I am guilty as charged....when I was younger I was always checking out the "chunkier" gals.....but always agreed with my buddies about "yeah she's fat".....while not having the balls to say I liked larger girls...

Anyway.....Happy Friday !!!!!!

It is sad how we damage our women. Most are raised to believe they are never "good" enough especially when they are large women. We also live in a country that promotes everything with sex but we raise our women to believe a woman that enjoys sex is a "slut". It has taken me the last 20 years to change the way my wife thinks of herself and the oppression her religious training has inflicted on her as well. With all these years past I am still not 100% successful.

showinggrain....you are hitt'in the nail on the head.....unfortunately what your saying is true....
I can go all the way back to HS....and girls that I thought were pretty...I could never ask them out because they were "fat"......in reality....maybe chunky at most.....my "friends" would never had approved of them...
How pathetic of me......

then though face book....reconnected with old friends....a gear head buddy of mine tells me he had a "thing" for Paula......but never asked her out because "I" would have never "appoved" of her.....she was a little "thick"......

anyway.....Im absolutely amazed at how "shallow" I was....

Hi this is Rick,
I very seldom make comments ,Sue posts our pics. This topic I decided time to speak out. bbwbikinimilf I agree with you 100% most of us men are not that wise. showingrain maybe Im misreading your response but it is her eyes and personality that makes her desirable. So I have to askwhy a bbw a lot of women have sexy eye's and personalities.

Speaking for me I want only bbw's such as Sue and bbwbikini milf and the rest of the bbws here. Lately bbw are getting close to skinny as far as attention. Yes my wife is shared with other men mostly married to skinny. No she is not a slut she is the best wife in the world .Sorry I usually let Sue do this stuff this one het a spot with me. Rick

Good morning.....
Well at least this board is alive...LOL
First I must say thank YOU Rick for the compliment of my wife.......coming from you with a wife like Sue.....that's means a lot...

Having done the dating scene at midlife...Regarding personalities....whether large or small...my goodness it plays the second most important part in a relationship (I feel)...I had 2 dates where the ladies physical features were hotter than hell....but by the end on the night.....there's no way I wanted to have a second date.....I.e. don't bitch about your adult kids all night....don't bitch about your ex...no I don't want to fix your car....etc/etc...
LOL...I'm trying to move forward....lets not bitch about the past....

As for "sluts".......usually a term used be a guy or gal....towards another woman......because THEY themselves cannot share there deepest emotionals/feelings/fantasy/etc with there life partner....THEY are envious.....I KNOW...I was one of those...for 26 years....

I love BBW. You are absolutely the best!
It is shameful that society tries to mold everyone into an Hollywood image where you must be anorexic or not accepted. Good luck trying to find nice clothes if you aren't a size 0-4. Anything over a size 10, forget it.
And why is it a larger woman is ashamed to go to a beach. I struggle to get my wife to go enjoy herself because of the intimidation. Everyone should be able to enjoy life without fear of judgement.
Sue, I love seeing your pics and your willingness to be spontaneous and have fun! Thank you!
Hopefully others will follow your lead.

Thank you, we enjoy our life style and Im very proud of my body and the pleasure men receive seeing me and being with me. We laugh at the rude comments. Sue

bbwbikinimilf & Sue you are the best of the site

Thank you Tahoe we love all of the ladies that post on bbwsex4u.

An few yrs ago, some news agency did a poll on this very questions. According to their results, 43 or 48% of men said they enjoy "chubby" women. The big questions was, define the difference between "chubby" and just plain "fat."

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