Don’t “demand” contact from ppl! (by Anniebuddy)

Food for thought:

Just because you’ve seen someone’s body on here doesn’t give you a right to demand further access to them. Demanding any contact, but particularly live cam shows, chat sessions, and *especially* “real world” info is creepy. I have met incredible people through this website, but I also get men who want to be my Dom from the first email (and it’s clear they have no idea what being a Dom really means). Or the guy who got pissed because I wouldn’t tell him where I work and what my schedule is. It’s scary, to be honest.

Pretty fucking ridiculous :-/ There are dudes out there I suppose that truly believe ladies will fall all over themselves to hook up with them... like they have a special one of a kind cock LOL

Annie I could not agree with you more. I chat openly and honestly and have been posting a little over 15 years. You are right about the men that say they are Dom most don't understand the real life style. There are some great men on here and we have met some in real life. Yes you have to be careful and meet in a public place the first time. Sue

Hello Annie we have been posting on these type site since 2003. Determine your guidelines, stand by them and don't let others, especially men dictate to you otherwise. We have had to be really fir and especially with men on our dos and don'ts. They get pissed even to the point of cursing out but oh well. ....which just proves why we didn't give them which they were asking. Mike

i could not agree more!

We all need to be respectful of one another. Setting foot in this world is a potentially enjoyable - but also potentially dangerous - proposition. Remember that at the end of the day, we are all just regular people. We go to work, make dinner, wash clofhes, vacuum the house, pay bills… On the other side of that screen name is a regular person. Maybe they have years of experience, maybe they don’t. But this is one of those steps in life that, for many people, they either want to tread alone, or they need support. Many of us had a helping hand, a guide, a partner, a friend.

Keep in mind that there are no signposts; no trailblazers. It will probably always be this way. And when someone is already standing on shaky ground - maybe it’s their first time posting, or for any number of other reasons - the last thing they need is to be frightened away. Don’t be mean. Don’t be a jerk. Don’t be a creep. I’ve seen so many people turned away from a part of life that they would so thoroughly enjoy, simply because their first experiences were run-ins with bad people. Don’t be those people.

There should also be no judgment. Virtually everyone is here for the same reason - to have a good time. Everyone also deserves discretion - regardless of whether they are here for indiscretions. If you are going to judge someone else for what they are here for, it’s time to reevaluate what you are doing here.

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