This site was an eye opener. I'm a female who posted. Personally, WHAT I LIKE, I consider a man by these ways, and usually in this order. He has to possess the first two. The way he talks with me, his mental maturity, his body size (bigger 375-260 lbs is great, but not necessity), his facial appearance, his age maturity (older>younger), BWC,BBC, his physical appearance.
BEING BBW, when I got on this site I didn't know I could be emailed, I thought I'd see the responses to my question if I looked like I fit being BBW. I just wanted opinions, and I know every person's is different. I received some emails that were odd to me. Aggressive, going off, people don't introduce themselves or give a purpose for emailing, and with AI, I was first alarmed that my image was put in a different format than what I posted.
I know there are people that have different lifestyles and different mentalities but I didn't expect to get direct emails, and I used an email address I used regularly. It's why I thought maybe I shouldn't post my pictures anymore.
WOMEN WHO POST, now I wonder what men think about women who post their own images. I know I will get opinions from men who view this site, so it's not the opinion of all men.
I received emails that assumed I was a man posting for a female. I got emails that mixed me up for posting on wifelovers. I hadn't heard about that site, but there is a lot more posting there, and quite a few hot men images and videos. Looking on wifelovers I got an understanding of why people thought I was a man posting my pics.
I wanted to know what do guys think about women who post their own pictures. But I wanted to know why do guys assume that men are posting pictures when I know I asked if guys thought I was BBW. Seems I have an answer.
I see this site is a sister site, and it seems that men could post pictures of women, so people who regularly look at this site naturally assume guys are posting the pictures and videos.
But the stereotype that gets me is the men who think of women as passive and men as aggressive. And when I pushed back at the men about the way I challenged them about the way that I felt they were approaching me, some assumed that I was pretending to be a woman and telling me my words were aggressive so I must be a man. Obviously thinking a woman wouldn't dare push back against a man or it isn't in our nature to challenge a man.
I'm curious what do the man think about women who post stuff on here. I can understand because of how men are socialized if they question if a PERSON says they are a woman. Any person can question any other person who says the images are theirs without absolute proof. But people who just say they know without knowing are too much.
And the people who ask for a telephone number. Ok now I'm getting into the weeds because there are just people who are challenged.
Idk if there is a definite look or size that is the beginning of a BBW. Some men like it and some men don't. I don't need approval about myself, but many people do seek it.
What do you guys think? I forgot something but I'm going to add it up top. See if you can guess what I added if you read this far.
By jlp72671 on Wednesday, March 12, 2025 - 10:21 am:
For me I come here And wife lovers specifically for the self posting ladies. There use to be more of y’all . But like you said the emails from the pervs sending cock pics and nasty message’s have spooked most away. I have email chat with a few self posting ladies over the years they were just bored and married like myself and enjoyed the conversation. So yes the pervs have ruined it for the self posting ladies in my opinion. Hopefully that doesn’t deter you from posting because they are some nice guys out here who would like to see you!
By dickdublin on Saturday, March 15, 2025 - 9:01 am:
I would just like to add my voice and support to Jlps very sensible views. When I first found this wonderful site I could not believe my luck to see and admire so.many BBW ! I LOVE AND ADORE ALL BBW !!!!
If distressedclit or anybody else like to contact me.... dickdublin@irelandmail.com
By wolfmankev on Saturday, July 12, 2025 - 1:45 am:
I love it when a woman posts herself as it give her confidence especially if she is a BBW. for which I like. Nothing better than a woman with a fuller figure
distressedclit I looked for you on WL but no results which is a shame
By aznudists on Thursday, January 22, 2026 - 12:38 am:
I post "most" of my own pictures. My husband does at times. We try to specify which one of us did the posting. Like "distressedclit," it didn't occur to me that my husband's email would be posted. We are nudist, but very private people. Oh we go to nude beaches & all, but for the most part, just keep to ourselves. If any friends or relatives ever mentioned they saw me in here, it would be devastating to me! Please, keep comments about our pictures, contained within the thread & not my husband's email. If it keeps up, I will have to withdraw from this site. Now you know why all my pictures either have my face obscured or the mask on it.
